Standards

I have standards. No more excuses. I won't break them for anyone. PERIOD.I know I may be quite bothersome when it comes to that guy blah blah blah, but please bare with me. In my mind I think that the constant and ever continuing conversing will ultimately numb my nervousness. But in all honesty, I'm treading unknown waters, and I'm afraid to sink. I'm not a fan of not knowing whether or not there is potential for a relationship, so I tend to psych myself out by overanalyzing certain situations. Believe me, I'm working on that. So what the heck is this post all about? Well, I figured that if I had it down in some form of which is tangible, I'd be better able to grasp what exactly my standards are. As communication with the opposite sex seems to be the one constant barrier I have such trouble with. So here goes...1. Must value education as much as I. If you want respect, do something worth respecting. Nor can he be the guy that undermines what I study and love. His interest in what I do is of great importance and by far a necessity. It would be genuinely reciprocated of course.2. Driven. Must know what his goals are. I'm tired of guys who have no idea what they want and where they want to go in life nor what they want out of a relationship.3. Must practice chivalry. It's a thing. No questions asked.4. Physical health is of importance, but not their primary concern when it comes to going out on a date or working out at the gym. I'm definitely not a fan of the all body and no brain kind of guy.5. Understands and respects my parents, and is not afraid of meeting them or their standards.6. ABSOLUTELY NO Freinds with Benefits. I'm sick of that. It's stupid, immature, and is the most irrational mindset after cheating. Just not for me. I've tried, and it doesn't work. Plus, I don't do man whores. (sorry andrew)7. Must be attractive. Heyyyy, I'm not shallow, or superficial. And, I won't apologize for that statement. It's a fact that we like people that are attractive. I know you can't deny it. In this sense, I'm applying it not only to the physical but also the personality. I'm hate dry personalities and poor excuses for stale conversations.That's all I'm asking for. That's not alot right? right. I thought so too.